my prayers go out to you and your family,i know this must be a hard time for you and your family, but when it's times like this we need to pray and just leave everything in God hands, never give up your faith no matter how the situation might look, God allows certain things to happen in our lives for a reason, we might not understand them now but everything happens for a purpose, dont drive your self crazy just have faith in the lord because no matter what you might think the outcome might be you will not know until the time comes , only the Lord knows what will happen , just remain faithful and ask for streantgh , and if u can speak with your brother let him know this is the time he needs to get closer to the lord in prayer not only now but always . please update us with your situation so we can continue praying for you